Relationshits.

Want to know what else chaps my hide? No? Too bad.

It pisses me off when a person starts dating someone new, and they fall off the face off the earth. I understand about new relationships... how exciting it is... all the passion... wanting to spend time with them... blah blah blah. What I don't understand is why some people completely forget about their friends. You know, the people they've known and been friends with for years. The people that know them better than anyone else. The people who pick them back up when they get dumped. Especially if the s.o. tells you not to hang out with them anymore. That's just the beginning of months, years, decades of being controlled. Fuck that.

Also, the changing of personalities. There is a difference between looking at yourself and deciding some changes need to be made and changing because the person you are dating wants you to. I'm not perfect. I've dated some super losers in the past. But I have never, ever changed who I am for anyone, nor have I expected them to change for me. If someone doesn't love you because of who you are, then it's just not going to work. Or you are going to end up miserable.

Please, guys, grow a spine and go get your balls out of her purse. Ladies, grow a back bone and roar.